We all know that most of the guys have their specific wish list for their kind of girls they want to date and in every list, there will always be this Asian girl whom we have a hard time to approach. So here are some ways on how to pick up one with ease.
Be persistent and avoid being desperate– the first and most important rule of approaching Asian women. Most Asian women tend to expect guys to be more approaching, but that doesn’t mean they do not like you. This is the reason why Asian women seem unique for Western men; they do not show their affections easily upon your first approach which is why you need to be persistent and do things gently.
Open up and build the connection– This usually happens the second time you see her, might be on a date or somewhere. So you must be able to let her feel your interest in knowing more about her, telling her things about yourself like hobbies, sports that you do and maybe some of your family background (it may sound cheeky, but it works for most of the Asian girls). By that, you’ll be able to ask her more about her personal life (this part might be cheekier) show her the interest that she needs and be patient on listening on things about her, asking questions might make the conversation last but make sure to know your limitations in asking questions. The longer your conversation, the deeper your connection.
Know her nationality– Western people tend to generalize Chinese, Japanese, and Korean people due to their looks. These three countries have different cultures, so by being able to determine which country she belongs is a huge plus. Do your research about their culture, what are the things that you should do and the things that you shouldn’t.
Be polite– Asian Girls are sensitive, they might see politeness as a sign of your respect unless they manifest a thick layer of makeup and promiscuous clothing, these show that she might be physically Asian but culturally Western (which might be easier to approach).
Dress well– Dressing well is important as some people say that the way we dress reflects our doings, though there are some Asians who tend to look gangster or to look cool which is wrong.
There are no rules on approaching the girl you like, no guarantees of success to make your ultimate Asian girl crush notice you. The best that you could do is to become the best version of yourself.